People who change/mold their feelings depending on the situation upfront are always misleading.
Feeling should develop over a period and decision should be made no matter how you feel about the situation. Your decision also doesn't speak about your feelings because you might have made a decision that is based on what is right for the moment but need not be how you would feel about it.
This is a true story from the Japanese Embassy in US!!!A few years ago, Prime Minister Mori was given some basic English conversation training before he visits Washington and meets president Bill Clinton...The instructor told Mori Prime Minister, when you shake hand with President Clinton, please say 'how r u'.Then Mr. Clinton should say, 'I am fine, and you?' Now, you should say 'me too'. Afterwards we, translators, will do the work for you.'It looks quite simple, but the truth is...When Mori met Clinton , he mistakenly said 'Who r u?' (instead of 'How r u?'. )Mr. Clinton was a bit shocked but still managed to react with humor: 'Well, I'm Hillary's husband, ha-ha...'Then Mori replied ,'me too, ha-ha.. .'.Then there was a long silence in the meeting room &..
Love is a lot like a backache, it doesn't show up on X-rays, but you know & feel it's there...
How can you love / serve people if you judge them.
Every time some one discourages you, whisper onto yourself "I will prove you wrong".
Every time some one encourages you, whisper onto yourself "I will prove you right".
Knowing others is wisdom; knowing thy self is enlightenment.
90% of our problems in our RELATIONSHIPS are due to the TONE of our VOICE. Its not about WHAT we say, Its about HOW we say it.......
Become a watcher, of yourself and what’s around you. Develop the witness, the part of you that can step back from life and impartially observe how you react and think and feel. We learn so much about who we are!
